“Susan of Basingstoke” deeply impacted everyone who knew or came into contact with her; classmates from school, university course mates, work colleagues, friends made along the way, and immediate and extended family. If you would like to contribute a tribute to this page please submit a request using the button at the bottom of the page.
“My sister was and still is my role model, growing up in Nigeria Susan was my big brother, my big sister, my teacher. I remember when we were young, when my mother will buy my younger brothers new football kits and trendy trainers, Susan will often surprise me on my birthday as she didn’t want me to miss out or feel left out. She saved the little she was getting from work, it couldn’t had been easy for her as she just started university. Even when my days were bad, I was grateful to God for my sisters life. So grateful for the blessings God have given her. My sister have travelled a long and hard journey in this life. Her happiness and accomplishment made me the happiest brother alive. Blessed be her path always.
Yours forever.”
+ Efe Imajemite
“My dear Suzy Sue,
I believe I speak for everyone who knew you, when I say we are all deeply saddened by your passing. The world has lost a good one. There are many times when I feel confused and angry that you are no longer here physically, but then I remind myself that you are here in spirit, living through us and your children.
Rather than mourn you, I will continue to celebrate you all the days of my life.
We live in a world that can be very challenging at times. I believe God sends his best soldiers to this world to give us hope, to be an example of his grace, to inspire and help people. You have left such a strong mark on this world, that I can still hear you giving me advice, encouraging me, praising me, and even constructively criticising me. I believe you carried out your tasks to the letter. Now you have gone back to the light of God.
I have the honour of being your brother and accompanying you on your journey. You were an amazing human being, and now you are another guardian angel of mine, along with Nene.
You would often say that you felt so short, in size, when standing next to your brothers. What you may have lacked in height, you made up in having a big heart and an almighty will. You were indeed a force of nature.
Your Brother,”
+ Ese Imajemite
“I still cannot believe this is real, and I’m going to miss you terribly. Till we meet again…”
+ Leslie Ohomele
“My dear Suzzy Q
I know you're in a better place.
I close my eyes to see your face,
And suddenly I feel your warm embrace.
With your beautiful smile ever so wide,
I try ever so hard not to cry.
You always knew just what to say
to anyone having a bad day.
I don't know if I will ever understand,
but it must be part of God's plan.
As I look up towards the blue skies
I imagine you spreading your wings to fly
and everything is fine up in Heaven.
Tell everyone there we all send our love
to all the Angels up above.
Love Always”
+ Jason & Fidelia Brett
We Will All Miss Her
She was a bright star,
But all stars will fizzle out.
We will all miss her.
She was loved by all,
She is a daughter of God.
We will all miss her.
She brought joy to us,
Her family and her friends.
We will all miss her.
A loved, adored wife,
She was a mother to three.
We will all miss her.
She is the Lord’s girl,
To her Father she returned.
We will all miss her.
+ Anjolaoluwa Ademola-Oresanya
“Dear sis, I may have not spent a lot of time with you, but the little time we spent together is something I can never forget. I can't still accept that you are gone forever. I never knew that the message u sent to me this year will be the last. I am happy that you met my son before your departure. I will forever miss you, and you will forever be in my heart. Rest in the Lord and with Mother Mary, till we meet to part no more.”
+ Regina Vanni
“I hope I appreciated you enough,
I hope you FELT loved enough,
I hope I told you well done enough for the AWESOME JOB you did raising my amazing nephews and niece,
I hope I told you thank you enough for being extra supportive of my brother...
I REALLY HOPE I DID ALL THESE.
I celebrate your strengths,
I celebrate the WOMAN you were,
I celebrate your standard of humanity, kindness and love to those who experienced YOU!
Tough as it is, The REALITY that we won’t be having our gists again has hit really hard and below the belt.
STILL, I praise God for your Time here.
It was full of IMPACT!
May the our Good Lord grant you eternal rest SUZZY QOO!!!
LOVE NEVER DIES...”
+ Jennifer O.E. Alegieuno
“Dearest Susan,
We were always together on the dance floor when the oldies start at family gatherings, we talked always about starting an Urhobo club in the family and arranging a native soup cooking date. Though we didn’t see or talk often, when we did, we had long catch up conversations.
Sadly, we will never get the chance to start the Urhobo club we talked about, have the soup making date or any of the other things we joked about doing over the years. God alone knows why you had to leave so soon, so we take solace that you have gone back to God, who gave you life. I will miss our talks, I will miss looking around for you at family gatherings and our dances but most especially I will miss the things we never got round to do. May God’s eternal light shine on you always as you rest in peace. You will be missed!!!”
+ Judith Ohomele
“Susan.
When I heard the news of your death, I was very shocked.
Shocked because i had just seen the pictures of you and the extended UK based Alegieuno family members at Mama Vivian's 1 year memorial.
You looked very vibrant, hale and hearty......so how could you be gone? What happened? Why? So many questions but no answers.
You were quiet but firm (I saw that in how you brought up your children); family meant a lot to you, and you loved your husband and children totally and completely.
I can still recall our last conversation in 2019.....you were so concerned about JV and wanted only the best for him.
I pray the Lord heals, strengthens and comforts all your loved ones, family and friends, Amen.
Rest in peace dear Susan.
Your big sis,”
+ Omoze Leke-Apapa
'This Dance floor called Life'
You left the dance floor in your high heels, the music still playing,
a playful soft hum, one that sounded just as beautiful as the click of your little feet.
You left the dance floor with that cheeky dimple in your right cheek,
Swaying gracefully, as you walked so petite,
Your body floating to the sound of the beat,
one as determined as the Sahara heat.
You left the dance floor giggling to your seat,
gaily waving like a queen,
a wink in your eyes and an ever slight glint, one that made us feel so lit.
You left the dance floor and you took the beat,
a rushed goodbye, then you echoed, "till we meet".
You left the dance floor and here we stand staring at it; wondering if at least,
we may dance together to this last hit.
You left the dance floor, like a puff that vanished into the mist,
the music is playing but alas, there are just no feet.
+ Layo Demuren
“My Sister
You’re someone I turn to when my spirit needs a lift ..
You’re someone I treasure as you are a gift to me
We both filled our lives with beauty, joy and grace..
You are my special friend and sister that I will dearly miss for now and forever...
There will be times .. that I will crash down and cry because I need you to be around.. but I know in spirit you will be..
I am always here for your kids .. I will keep an eye on them as you always asked me to do...
You have nothing to worry now .. no more tears .. no more worries.. no rushing... you rest now my dear friend and sister ..
For all the things we shared together; laughter and cries .. it will be the sweetest memory I will keep forever in my heart ..
I love you and forever missing you”
+ Joy Bibby
“Dear Beautiful Susan,
I sat behind you in church, you were heavily pregnant with “Nini” and Victor Jr was a bundle of energy (about 2), climbing up and down the pew. I watch as you walked back to your car, which was exactly the same make, model and color as mine ( and I thought, a great mum with great taste!).
We actually got talking a while after Nini was born and you invited me to an event at the church. You always had me!!
You introduced us to my son’s school and we met there frequently. BACCA was formed and we became friends and members. Within the first year of meeting you, we became sisters and embedded into each other’s circle of friends.
You were always full of life and too funny! I loved your genuine smile and audacious attitude. Caring towards my son, and never gave up trying to get him to eat.
We had a lovely Video chat on Jan 1st!! You had no make up on, but still looked fabulous! You rushed off to prepare for 11am mass while we spoke to Victor Snr. That was the last time we saw you… We feel so privileged to have seen you, but you had called to say farewell!
Susan! Susan! You shared your wonderful personality and spirit with the world and made us godparents to your beautiful boy, so we are owning this responsibility now! We love you and we miss you so much and can only take solace with the parts of you left behind in 3 lovely beings!. We know you are resting in perfect peace, interceding on behalf of those you who love you!
Say me well to your fellow angels in heaven! You and your wings are now united.”
+ Lolita Ejiofor
“3 days before she passed, she wrote 'I am a phenomenal woman', indeed she was.
I have known Susan since 2011. Our children were at the same nursery. We quickly clicked and got to know each other. I have always been amazed by how much she did for everyone. She lived for her family, especially her children. Our children ended up at the same primary school and we attended the same church. The friendship continued and she was always a joy to be around. Always full of energy and positivity.
I will miss you dearly my dearest Susan. May you lie in comfort in the hands of the Lord. We are blessed to have know you.
Rest easy my girl!!”
+ Lyndie Gwatunga
“Your untimely departure has got me really thinking, and I'm wondering if one is ready for when one will be called home since though death is so inevitable, it seems it will always be untimely. I now feel like each and everyone of us is a walking corpse just waiting for the right time to bow down to our heavenly father's call Home.
I never knew when I hugged you in church on the first Sunday of January, that it was your last happy new year to me and my last to you. I remember your sacrifice on the 20th of October 2018, when we were launching our Charity, you dedicated your time, energy and finances to make the day a success. How will I ever pay you back, now you've gone. I remember you were one of the first persons to hug me and to ask me about Davi-Jayce when I lost him and you only saw it in the newsletters at church but you still grieved with me in your own special way.
Susan, I still do not know if to believe or not but the God we serve works in mysterious ways and we have to accept His ways. Through your death, I know I've got to be ready because at any moment, I can be called home to our Heavenly Father.
Fare well my ever smiling sister, we miss you. The entire St. Bede’s church will forever miss you.
Take care of My Davi-Jayce and till we meet to part no more,
ADIEU”
+ Claris
“Dear Susan,
We will miss you.
S&A”
+ Samir & Anne
“Dear Aunty Susan,
When I heard that you had passed away I was devastated,
I can't begin to imagine how your family is feeling.
R.I.P”
+ Jonathan Ohomele
“Big sis as I always call you, I still can't believe you are gone, three days after hearing the news, I called your number hoping that you will pick your call and ask me your usual question, how is myself and my children. You were just so caring and always loving. I still can't believe that you are gone. The last time I saw you was your mother-in-law's burial, you made sure everything was in order, I will always love you. I remember when we were living with Nene, how you used to take care of me and I cried the day you and Efetobor left to London. Big sis why?Who will be giving me your sisterly advice now?”
+ Ivrogbor Favour
“I don’t know where to start and honestly I’m not very prepared with what to say cos of my sheer shock and heartfelt sadness at this regretful loss. Susan was like a sister to me always keeping us in check and always shouting at us when we was up to no good, and would always keep encouraging us to marry and make something good of our lives she was like the beacon of hope to us and it’s going to be very hard to accept that she is no longer there to keep pushing us and giving me advice. I just recently had an operation and when I was in hospital the words of encouragement and how I will be able to get back on my feet was very inspirational to me and I will always be very grateful to have had a sister like figure to be there to offer her support and advice whenever it was needed. Susan was so thoughtful hard working precise in everything she did and for me that was something to aspire to and admire. God they say You take the best and the special ones well You have certainly taken the best and I just hope that together as a family we can all get through this and make the best for our lives in Susan name. I will miss you forever sister and whenever I’m struggling or feeling low I will try to always remember your positivity to keep myself going.”
+ Itua Hayble
“Susan, My Sister, My Friend, My Cousin, My Niece (You were all that to me and more...)
It's so hard to accept that you have left us..
Sweet, Smart and Selfless Susan...Home Maker, Peace Maker, A Joy to behold!
I learnt so much from you sitting in your kitchen and watching you doing what you did best - Loving, Caring, Teaching, Helping, Encouraging, Moulding....
I have asked "Why" and He says He loves you more than we do. We all belong to Him and we will all return to Him.
Hard as it is to accept, I know you are with Jesus. You have joined the Angels and Saints in a better place.
So dear Suzie Q, Please pray for us that our broken hearts will heal because it hurts so much....
Thank you for all the Love you showed to everyone you came across.
An Angel on earth and now in heaven.
Rest in perfect peace till we meet again, Dearest Susan.”
+ Helen Ajala
“Dear Susan,
It broke our hearts to loose you at such a young age, but you did not go alone.
A part of us went with you the day God took you home.
If tears will build a stairway and heartaches makes a lane, we would walk our way to heaven
and bring you back again.
In life, we loved you dearly, in death we love you still and even more.
In our hearts, you hold a special place no one can ever fill.
You had so much to live for judging by your achievements in such a short time on earth.
You are beautiful in and out, you were such a ball of energy as a child. Independent, enterprising and smart, pretty and kind. We are broken by you demise, but we thank God for blessing you with 3 lovely and beautiful kids which has been a great strength to us coping with your painful exit
Of all the many blessings ,however great or small, to have you for a niece was the greatest one of all. A family chain is broken now and nothing seems to be the same, but as God takes us one by one, the chain will link up again
My dear Susan, you were so supportive to my mother as a first grandchild. Am happy you were always close to God. I remember when you were only about 7 years old, how you would wake my mother up in the morning to make sure you attended morning services in the church.
Beautiful niece, thank you for inspiring your generation, thank you for being you and making us so proud of you.
Continue to rest on in the Lord, till we meet to part no more. We love you so dearly.
Your uncle”
+ Alex Osebor
“My beloved niece
Still hard to believe that you left us so soon but GOD knows best. When we were growing up, you were always a smart and intelligent girl, I always admire you being so brilliant. I had no doubt you will go places and you actually did. I never forget how we use to pick vegetables together for my mum and your grandma. Each time I remember our childhood I feel like I am dreaming. May your gentle soul rest in peace Susan.”
+ Louis Osagie Osebor
“I heard so much about you and looked forward to meeting you , However it was cut short. May you rest in the bosom of the almighty God. Rest in peace.”
+ Dhamie Etamesor
“I struggle to find the words to pay tribute to such an incredible and irreplaceable person in our lives. There were so many beautiful things to say about Aunty Susan. Her joy was contagious, her faith was unshakeable, her work ethic was second to none, the list can truly go on.
I remember in my younger days, how Aunty Susan would joke about us not calling her Aunty, how she’s still too young. But even at that age, she was someone I could look up to and someone that was too be respected. I remember making the same joke around a similar age when her children began calling me Aunty, I took it in my stride realising that I now had young ones looking up to me now. I only hope that I can lead by example the way she did. She was truly the big sister I never had, paving the way for those younger than her to follow.
I feel honoured for the time I’ve spent with Aunty Susan, she showed us that in life we must always persevere, continuously learn and embrace every opportunity. She made such an impact on so many lives, making them rich with lots of love and support. There is so much more to say, and we will have occasion to share our memories in the days, weeks and years to come. Her legacy will live on in each and every one of us.
May God bless Aunty Susan and may she rest in eternal peace.”
+ Omoye Osebor
“To my dear cousin,
I literally have no words. I still don’t believe it. You were an embodiment of everything an older cousin should be. Caring, compassionate, encouraging, selfless and kind. It saddens me that I didn’t get to spend as much time with you as our other cousins. I remember the last time I spoke to you on the phone, the conversation was rushed, but you still let me know how proud you were. You always did.
You were an amazing wife, mother, sister, cousin, aunty and friend. My dad always...and I mean ALWAYS used you as an example of what a successful woman should look like: well rounded, family-orientated, God-fearing and ambitious.
It saddens me that you are no longer a WhatsApp message away, but I have peace in knowing that this isn’t the end and that this life isn’t the prize. I know without a shadow of doubt, that you are in a place that’s much better than this Earth.
And so until we meet again, sweet dreams.
Love, xxx”
+ Obehi Osebor
“Aunty Susan was a woman who lit up the lives and touched the hearts of everyone that she met. It is such a painful thing to have to let go of such a beautiful soul, but we are all so blessed to have known such an amazing woman and privileged to be able to call her our family.
I grew up looking up to Aunty Susan and she became a shining example for all those around her to emulate; so much of who I aspire to be I see in her and I can only be thankful to God that although for only a short time, I knew such a strong and successful woman.
Almighty God,
Giver of all mercy and comfort;
Deal graciously with us who mourn,
May we cast all of our sorrow on you,
May we know the consolation of your love;
And find solace that our beautiful Susan is resting in perfect and eternal peace.
Amen.
My heart is broken knowing we will never speak again but I know by the grace of God and with the memory of the strength you always showed, I will also have the strength to follow your example and be strong too.
+ Ofure Osebor
“A GLOW IN THE DARK
When you enter a room, it glows
Times you speak brightens hearts
Those you touch, feelings linger
Gone to soon who would have thought , definitely not I
Thoughts of your laughter never fade
The day you left casts dark shades
Why oh why, I keep saying till I shake
God knows best , that’s not fake
You’ve taught me to live in the now
To make ourselves happy now
To say I love you now
To ask about others now
To give with no regrets now
To say thank you now
To eat what you love to eat now
To care for another now
To help now
Days will come when I’ll cry because it’s just your shadow beside me.
Can’t say I will miss you cause that’s a lie, the thought of you not here hurts inside.
No one knows the pain I bear but the Holy Spirit will surely help.
Angels don’t stay for long
They complete their good deeds and say so long
You are an Angel, this I know for sure
I’ll celebrate and treasure the times we had together with songs we love to sing, when it was just you and I
I definitely found my lost Twin but she is gone too soon
Adieu!! my darling Twin , till we meet at Jesus feet.”
+ S. Obadaki
“I feel so lucky to have had you as a cousin Susan. Growing up whenever we would see each other, you would never fail to give me a least one piece of parting advice. Whether it was to stay focused at school or to always look out for my family or even advice on entrepreneurship and life skills. Words cannot describe the amount of respect I had for you. We addressed you as Aunty and from the example that you set for all of the family and the invaluable advice and guidance you would give us, it only made sense.
I cannot find a reason as to why you have been taken from us so early, but I find comfort in knowing that your memory will forever live on in the hearts of everyone you touched in your time here with us.
We will miss you.
Rest in perfect peace.”
+ Ehigie Osebor
“A month has gone by and this indeed is our reality, Susan has gone to be with her maker. Life is so unpredictable, my sweet Susan, my darling cousin, my childhood bestie is no longer with us! Thanks for those memories we created in Ekpoma as kids before your relocation to the UK in 1993. Thanks for that last very lengthy call we had, touching every aspect of our lives, it was indeed a beautiful telephone conversation. Thanks for that prophetic prayer for the year 2020, some few days before your death, l only wished you ended the year 2020 in peace just as you prayed for me.
l can't stop starring at those beautiful styles you forwarded to me, but you never waited for them to be made. We had so many business and family plans for 2020 but you left them all behind unaccomplished.
Susan, l am so glad that you knew and believed in the Lord, a believer never truly dies, sleep on my dear cousin till we meet to part no more!”
+ Edugie Yvonne Adeoti
“My dearest Susan who was like a big sister to me, I still find it very hard to believe you are really gone especially after talking to you just the night before and I was supposed to come and stay with you! Some days I ask myself if this is really real and get tempted to dial your phone and as the days pass by it becomes really real that you are indeed gone. Gone from this world but not our hearts!
I am really glad to have known you for this very short period I knew you and you already left an impact! I would have wished for more time but God knows best.
Keep resting with God and we miss you. XX”
+ Valerie & Godwin Alegieuno
“Dear Susan,
I still cannot fathom how this is now reality. I haven’t come to terms with losing you. Seems like only yesterday you called me asking me “So when will you do your hair Jennifer?”.
I remember your smile
As bright as the morning sun,
Your fingers,
loosening the braids you put in yesterday .
I remember the prayers you said
As we gathered around you at night
The love you shared,
With each and every breath.
I remember your laugh ,
As we watched Star Wars
And your gasps
Through every episode of Game of Thrones
I will always remember you,
Brightly clothed in your flowery skirt,
With the warm glow
Of a mother’s love.
You were a mother, a sister,
a cousin, a daughter
And now you are immortal,
In our hearts and souls.
We will carry your love and share it with the world.
Love you forever,
“Jenny from the block”
Xxx”
+ Jennifer Aghedo
“What shall I say unto the Lord? I cannot question God. It breaks my heart to write this. Ist Thessalonians 4v 13 " But I do not want you to be ignorant brethren, concerning those who have fallen asleep, lest you sorrow as others who have no hope". I celebrate your life my little cousin, my namesake, Susan. You were a role model, a great daughter, sister, wife and mother of three beautiful children. You lived a good life, it is not how long but how well. I thank God for your life.
My fond memories of you were your childhood years, you were a sharp and bright girl. I remember when I was in the university and your primary school was on my campus and you, Efe, Edugie and Ehigiator would come to see me in my dorm. I would give you all some money and you all would happily run and go get some cookies. You were small Susan and I was big Susan. I remember when you and Efe left for London and you became London Susan and I later became American Susan. My Susan, death has only taken your body. God has your soul. Our minds hold the memories. Our hearts keep the love. Our faith let's us know we will meet again. Rest in paradise, my little cousin, Susan Vanni.”
+ Susan Ikhine
“I already miss you Susan, I will miss your frequent reference to your friends stating “my mum and her neighbour are like sisters” you ran your race with a passionate heart of humanity. The assurance we have is that we shall all meet again in that glorious place. Rest in peace my Susan”
Tolu’s mum (Doyin)
+ Mary Akintokun
“Suzy Q! It's hard to believe that you are gone. We joked on Boxing Day about how lucky we were seeing each other almost back to back over the Christmas period and how we should keep it up in the new year.... not knowing that would be the last time I would see you!
I cherish all the time that we spent together, the chit chats, the laughs and the sillyness even more now. You were always full of wisdom and had a solution for everything! I have learnt a thing or two from you and I admire your strength and tenacity. I am assured knowing that your legacy will live on through your lovely children.
Susan, you lived well. Your passion to always do good, your entrepreneurial ways and your community spirit was like none other. You will be greatly missed and fondly remembered. Sleep on dearest and may your beautiful soul RIP!”
+ Ebele Alegieuno
“Rest in Peace Susan
To lose a loved one is to alter our lives forever. It’s an emptiness that can never be filled. A grief that will always be as unique as you, one that we can never get over.
Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep.....By Mary Elizabeth Frye
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there; I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow,
I am the diamond glints on snow,
I am the sun on ripened grain,
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there; I did not die.
Susan, doting Wife, mother, daughter and sister, I know even the grave will not hold you down, I know you will be ever present.
God bless your heart and rest your sweet soul my beautiful cousin.”
+ Dr. Uyi Oduwa-Malaka nee Lawani
“It always seems like we have all the time in the world, only to realize how fleeting it really is. I wish we had more time to do and say the things we saved for later which along with you is gone forever.
Nothing breaks our hearts more than having a world that no longer has you in it. It was an honor to have shared this life with you.
My prayer is that we will not miss the reason why God allowed this to happen. Rest In Peace my beautiful cousin Susan.”
+ Oseremen Osebor
“Susan,
It’s taken me a long time to really accept that you won’t be there at our next gathering. I called you our professional mum because to me, you set an example for what a great Christian mum should be like. You brought so many of us together. Constantly reaching out and pulling us out of our bubbles. We’ll work hard to preserve these relationships you forged.
I already miss you desperately. But I know yoou’re being well taken care of now and watching over your family.
Love you Susan. Rest in Peace.”
+ Gloria Orere
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